One of the most popular questions that I get asked by guys is how to introduce sex toys into the bedroom. A lot of men have a real worry that their partners might be horrified at the idea. In fact the statistics say that she will probably be into it. As much as 44% of women have used a sex toy at some point in their life and 90% ‘felt comfortable’ discussing their use with their partners (This is from research by the Berman Center).
While talking about it is one way, there is an easier way to introduce them to bedroom.
Introducing Sex Toys Using a Massager
One of the easiest ways to introduce a sex toy is using a massager. These things (Of which the Hitachi Magic Wand is the most popular) look enough like sex toys to get her mind working, while looking innocent enough to not threaten her. On top of that some of them have some serious power in them! The trick is to act as if it is completely normal to use it.
To really get her mind racing, massage her it first, then her. Always let her stop if she wants to, but slowly move it down, then simply stop. It pays to keep her guessing and make her want it to happen.
Getting More Sexual with your Sex Devices
Once she has started to like the feel of it, you can spice things up by playfully getting more sexual. Keep a layer of clothing between the massager and her body if she isn’t used to the feel (It can be quite intense). If you touch and tease her correctly, she will soon be begging you to touch her genitals. If her state isn’t there yet, don’t pressure her too much as there is nothing worse for women than needy men. If she wants to continue, tease her some more. Slowly more upwards from her thighs towards her clitoris.
When you finally touch her clitoris use all the techniques that you know from oral sex and mutual masturbation to tease and touch her. Enjoy making her enjoy the experience and have an orgasm. Once she associates sex toys with orgasms, it becomes a lot easy to introduce others. There are thousands of different sex toys for you to try out and experiment with. Soon you can use them to have bigger and better orgasms for both of you.